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Roneka twitted the message below on how she manages her relationship.
"No boyfriend of mine will need multiple women. I
have multiple personalities, just tell me which one to unleash".
Roneka has bared her mind on how she will save
her relationship. Hmm this “cheating thing” is an old wives tale that will be
re-told for years to come. Roneka might just be right lol.
Meanwhile, as Roneka is unleashing her multiple
personalities, there is the current Instagram wahala about cheating in Musa and
Caroline Danjuma’s marriage.
Caroline posted a heartfelt message on her Instagram
page after being tagged in regards to Musa’s “business”. Instead of people to
either read and pass or show some understanding, different comments have been
made. Some called her out for saying “all men cheat” some said she wants to die
in the marriage because of money. Haba! My people, which one wey dey so? Someone
is going through rough times and all we have to offer are derogatory
statements. How is it her fault that her husband is cheating abi cheated?
Abeg how will this cheating problem be resolved or
will it get solved by having multiple personalities? What do you think?
We just need to commit our marriages into God's hands and pray for the best. It is not about having multiple personality. Men Cheat when they want to and have to, even though i dont accept that part that all men cheat. On Caroline's case i think she is a strong woman who is trying as much as she can to make her marriage work, what she needs at this time is her fan's support to whatever stand she takes. But if am in her shoes(which i dont pray to be) i will Keep news of my marriage off social network. Let her be ready for anything, after all she is not Musa's first wife. Anyway i wish her all the best.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure why Caroline Danjuma puts her marriage problems online. I think it's ok to air it if you are ready to walk away, but why put your man on blast when you intend to forgive him serially and stay with him? To each their own though, I feel bad for her, she seems to be in a really bad place. The man is clearly very disrespectful of her and their relationship. I do not believe that all men cheat, that kind of generalisation is harmful and untrue. However, at the end of the day, it is left for the victim; male of female, to decide whether to forgive a cheating partner. Poor Caroline
ReplyDeleteMarriage is meant for manured boys and girls fulstop
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DeleteCheating...... In as much as i don't encourage it, somethings are best handled privately. Barring ur marital issues online cos u are popular will not earn u mass support or round of applaus. Handle ur matters at home. If you cant endure something mbok take to ur heels ooooo.....
ReplyDeleteFirstly, it's annoying how Nigerians have lost every sense of empathy in them...really annoying. Attacking Carol the way they did over her marriage wahala so wasn't right...but then, she should have just ignored the trash people were saying and focused on working things out in her home. (My opinion).
ReplyDeleteAbout cheating, have you noticed that, in recent times, men no longer hide the fact that they cheat? It's getting more serious by the minute. Makes you ask what the women folk aren't doing right.
As per how it can be solved, can it...really? Would Roneka's idea be the best way to handle the matter? Hmmmm! I'm searching for answers myself o!
Dis is the result of washing ure dirty linen in public.marriage comes with a package full of up's & down.
ReplyDeleteThese guys should for once be matured in exposing some certain information about their relationships
ReplyDeleteSorry o my beautiful people, I no wan drink paracetamol for another person's headache. People should be mature enough to handle their private matters privately.
ReplyDeleteMy mother in law always told me marriage and relationship*boyfriend and girlfriend are two different things. Some marriages seems like they are made in haven but trust me is the two people involved making it seem that way. Is not a bed of roses but with God on your side you can live it up
ReplyDeleteSome men are perpetual cheaters it doesn't matter if you are a superwoman,in my opinion,if you must be with a man who is a cheater,well,you have to live your life as if he's not there"literaly".
ReplyDeleteI think its a two way street. Most times, its the womans fault that her man cheats, women sometimes drops their guard when they feel secure in a relationship or marriage and stop doing things that attracted the man to them in the first place. and when it happens, they start nagging which in turn pushes the man further away.
ReplyDeletebut some men are wired that way and there's nothing a woman can do to stop them from cheating. in this case, its also the womans responsibility to choose wisely.